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spacebrat311
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« on: January 27, 2010, 11:19:47 PM »

Fellow Phorumer Simon and I are part of a group of friends who have decided that as we prepare to graduate from Azusa Pacific University in May, it makes increasing sense to us to create a life together that actively embodies the life and the kind of "social ethics," if that term means anything helpful, that the Gospels seem to imply. We are crafting a kind of communal living situation built around a lot of commitments, but perhaps most centrally for me built around the notion that the Christian life seems to be one of dependence rather than independence. As such, it will be an intentional home built not around the idea of separation and withdrawal or the creation of a utopian society like a commune, but one whose practices intertwine us inexorably with the community we place ourselves in and engages that (preferably lower income) community in a way that leads to working and striving together.

I will keep you all updated as specific practices and ideas continue to emerge and take any questions you may have. But foremost I would ask for prayer in this endeavor. We're going to need a lot of it at every step of the way. This will not be easy, wide-eyed and idealistic, but will instead be a lot of hard work. We expect to encounter all kinds of resistance, heartache and hardship.
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« Reply #1 on: January 28, 2010, 08:02:41 AM »

That sounds like a really cool idea, and I commend you guys for trying to really seek out and follow the will of God for yourselves and how you live together as a community.

I'll be praying for this endeavor, and be sure to keep us in the loop about how it goes!
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« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2010, 09:23:34 PM »

I thought you all deserved an update.

We have been moved into our new living situation now for about two months. Our house consists of Simon and I, two of our female friends from APU, one of our theology professors, and his wife. In about a week or so, we expect the professor's parents to join us as well. So for the count, that's four 22-year-olds, two approximately 60-year-olds, and two approximately 90-year-olds.

We have moved into the professor's home. When we started dreaming all this, it was just the four then-college-students, but we heard through the grapevine (facebook) that our professor was hoping to do something similar and it made a lot of sense to join together.

This presents the first challenge, and the first specific prayer that I would like to ask you pholks for. We now live in a gated community. While this is not ideal for anyone in the house except the professor's wife, she is in a fragile enough state emotionally that it may be years, and may be never, before it would even be possible to talk about moving to a lower income community. This is not necessarily a fatal flaw. I think it is still possible for us to make our life as a house very directly about the poor (something more direct than volunteering at a soup kitchen or something) even where we are. It just will take a lot more hard work and a lot more creativity. And prayer. So if you would keep us in your prayers for that, that would be great.

Another challenge: One of the two females our age is moving out. She became busier and busier with work, and felt like it made increasingly less sense to be part of the house when she couldn't devote the time it would take to actually BE part of the house. There is no ill will here or anything, we wish her the best and she is one of our closest friends, so we plan to see her regularly, so prayer for both her and us in navigating this transition would be helpful.

Just so you all have an update on the kinds of things we're doing as a house we are:

-Gardening. We have a small garden in our back yard where we are growing food, and we are also taking time to volunteer with a local CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) in an attempt to encourage various kinds of food-related justice.

-Sharing of our abundance. Simon works at Starbucks during the day and a bar at night, so he generates a lot of take-home items since he has made it clear to both employers that he is not ok with waste. We get a large bag of Starbucks sandwiches and pastries every time he closes and several tens of pounds of coffee grounds per week, which are extremely good for composting, as well as recyclable bottles from the bar. Finding places for this abundance to go has become an activity of its own. Since we are connected with several other companion houses (as the local Christian intentional houses have taken to calling themselves) in the area, we tend to distribute the Starbucks sandwiches there, while the pastries are usually brought to be served at church on Sundays. We take the coffee grounds to the CSA and other gardens we can find. We have a couple of houseless friends who live in a van in the Ralph's parking lot off of Social Security checks and recycling money, so we attempt to bring them any cash-value recyclables we have built up whenever we go over to hang out with them.

-Praying. We have morning and evening prayers at 8AM and 10PM everyday, and the plan is to begin having a more structured liturgy as a house on Sundays that culminates in the Eucharist. We are also continually thinking about what it might mean for the life of our house itself to be a prayer. If everyone can make it to morning prayer on a given day, then we also read and discuss a chapter in the book of Acts. We do each chapter a few times before moving on, as we hope to move through the book slowly and thoughtfully.


Thanks for all the prayers so far, and I'll continue keeping everybody in the loop.
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« Reply #3 on: August 13, 2010, 10:31:05 PM »

> as the local Christian intentional hoes have taken to calling themselves
I assume you mean "intentional houses"?

Anyway, that sounds like quite the cool experiment. My church encourages singles to do something similar, though not with mixed genders, but nothing really as holistic as what you describe. I hope the system continues to work out for you and that you manage to maintain an equilibrium of household members as people join and leave as life dictates.
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« Reply #4 on: August 13, 2010, 11:39:47 PM »

Haha, yeah I definitely meant houses. Thanks for the support!
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