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« on: July 11, 2003, 09:41:47 PM »

where do we draw the line in today's church? or DO we draw a line? is it biblical or not to have designated gender roles as far as church leadership is concerned? i'm interested in people's opinions.
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« Reply #1 on: July 11, 2003, 11:15:40 PM »

This is one of the downsides of the new phorum: we lose all the threads where we batted this stuff back and forth. Of course, you'd have to dig through several pages of threads to find it, and it was a while ago, so people's opinions may have chaged. A worthwhile topic to discuss, too, given how radically the times have changed over the past 2000 years (ok, maybe it's not considered radical over a 2000-year period, but you know what I mean Wink).

It is my personal belief that the scriptures aren't 100% straight from the mouth of God: they were certainly inspired by God, but they were written by people. This is NOT to say that I feel the scriptures are necessarily 'incorrect' or not a sound platform for doctirine: don't get me wrong on that! What I'm trying to say here is this: some of the things in scripture are straight from God and are just as immutable and infallable as He is. Other things in scripture are written by men who have had direct revelation into what God thinks and commands. But when we read the Bible, we get it from a human filter: when we read Revelation, for example, we see everything through John's eyes, and sometimes the reason it is so cryptic is that we get his human interpretation of a divine vision.

So what I'm leading up to here is that the church's beliefs in the suitability of women for a teaching position come from several passages, but most of them were written by Paul when instructing people (mainly Timothy) how to set up and run an effective church. The most emphatic passages are in 2 Timothy 2, where Paul lays forth proper behavior and decorum for worship and churchgoing. One thing you will notice is the pronoun 'I'. Paul says, for example, "I want men everywhere to lift up holy hands in prayer, without anger or disputing" (2:8). He doesn't say here that God necessarily wants this (though in the above example it's not too much of a stretch to say that He does), just that this is how he thinks a church should be run. It can be legitimately interpreted, I would say, that these instructions are as much of a cultural reference as they are a moral one.

As you may know if you know me, I am a firm believer that God wants us to behave in a logical manner, not obeying laws and formulae just because they're bad in themselves, but because there are actual good reasons for doing so. Sometimes we can't know these reasons, but in general, they're pretty obvious: stealing isn't bad because God doesn't want us to have cool stuff, it's bad because it hurts someone else and often leads to violence. So let's apply our minds: why would Paul say "A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent."? Not because women are evil and anything taught by a woman has no value, but because (at the time Paul was writing this) women had no value, so if the Gospel was taught by women, it may be perceived as having no value.

I am, of course, speculating here: I don't know for sure that this is why Paul says this. But we see in several other passages that Paul is concerned with how the gospel is presented, especially to unbelievers, and that he is fairly subtle and crafty in manipulating how he came across to people he was in contact with. Remember when he said "while I was with you I resolved to know nothing but Christ"? We have here a man who wants to make sure the Gospel is spread effectively given the current culture.

So my point in all this is that
  • The injunctions against female leadership are mostly cultural artifacts from 2000 years ago
    [li]Even at that time they weren't straght from God but were instead orders from Paul
    [li]Applying logic, there is nothing about truth that makes it less truthful when taught by a woman
The church defines general roles for husband and wife, male and female, and I think it's fairly wise: modern "gender equality" fails to take into consideration that the genders really ARE different both physically and temperamentally, and there are some roles which men are good fill, and some roles which women are better at. Rather than denying this and putting men and women into jobs for which they are less suited under the name of equality, isn't it better for a person to find what they are best at doing and then do it?

So finally (hah, you say, he's going to shut up now! Wink), I believe that God will give the gift of teaching and illumination of the scriptures to those that He wants to teach. If He has not given the gift to a woman who wants to be a pastor, it would be harmful to the congregation if she were installed in that role. But if He has given her that gift, it would be an insult both to her and to God to deny her a chance at pastoral leadership because of her gender.

 
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« Reply #2 on: July 13, 2003, 01:34:34 AM »

Wow.  Great post, Vlad.

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« Reply #3 on: July 13, 2003, 09:30:10 PM »

I agree and disagree with some of the things you said... but my opinion is that women are, at times, inspired by the Word of Christ to speak, and so it is their mandate to speak.

I also visited a church where the head pastor was a woman. I was skeptical about that at first, but God has truly blessed this church, so my views have changed. Time has changed. God has stayed the same. It's confusing.  
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« Reply #4 on: July 13, 2003, 11:14:50 PM »

mark, when you say women are "at times inspired by God's word" you mean just as much as a man would be inspired "at times" right?

i do agree, this subject is confusing. soooooo many seemingly good views and i ideas.

vlad, you rock, i loved your thourough response.

anyone read the article in relevant about submission in marriage? i think it was under the life section, i found it in the archives. it was a pretty awesome perspective.
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\"i am a whore i do confess, i put You on just like a wedding dress and i run down the aisle, run down the aisle. i'm a prodical with no way home, i put You on just like a ring of gold and i run down the aisle, i run down the aisle to You.\"
                                 
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« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2003, 02:21:21 PM »

Pheobe was a deacon.
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« Reply #6 on: July 17, 2003, 04:42:43 PM »

Good post, Vlad.

A thought:

In this book I'm reading (The Ironic Christian's Companion by Patrick Henry- the basic premise of the book is to show that God doesn't fit into anyone's box - it's interesting, but not earthshattering), the author comments that you can use this argument to support homosexuality.  He says that 100 years ago, it was completely accepted by almost all Christians that women could not lead a church, because it is clearly stated in the Bible.  And look where we are now.  So, in 100 years, will homosexual pastors be commonplace?

I, for one, see a big difference between allowing a woman to be a pastor and allowing a gay person to be a pastor - but he has a valid point.  I go to a church that will not consider allowing women to be the head pastor.  Our children's pastor is female, and we are considering allowing women on our board of elders.  I'm not sure where I stand with all of this - I was raised in a "women can do anything men can do" family, then became a Christian and started questioning my upbringing.  However, being a woman, I lean more to the "allow everyone equal opportunity regardless of gender" side of things, but my opinion on doctrine has been swaying back and forth a lot lately.
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« Reply #7 on: July 18, 2003, 09:08:51 AM »

It is hard to reconcile a religion that has been associated with discrimination and strong gender roles with our very open society today. Not to get started too far on homosexuality in society and the church--that's a topic unto itself!--I think (like most things with two extremes) the solution lies somewhere in the middle. I'm glad you all seem to like my thoughts on the issue (I will admit, since we tossed the subject around a bit on the other forum I've had a chance to chew this over for a while), and I tend to believe that more freedom is a good thing.

My mom is reading a book by Phillip Yancey called Soul Survivor-How My Faith Survived the Church. As we were discussing it about a week ago, she told me about a chapter that discussed Martin Luther King Jr. and the civil rights movement. Yancey makes a great point at the end of the chapter when he shows us that many devout believers honestly thought that God made black people inferior to white people. Now that we know this to be completely false, what other beliefs does the church hold that, twenty years from now, our children will look back on and wonder how we could be so misguided and barbaric?

Something to think about.
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« Reply #8 on: July 18, 2003, 12:08:48 PM »

The key to preventing the kind of the you're talking about is to keep practice firmly rooted in scripture.  Always examine an issue against scripture, not against society.
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« Reply #9 on: July 18, 2003, 02:03:50 PM »

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\"I haven't come for only you, but for my people to pursue. you cannot care for Me with no regard for Her; if you love Me you will love the Church.\"

\"i am a whore i do confess, i put You on just like a wedding dress and i run down the aisle, run down the aisle. i'm a prodical with no way home, i put You on just like a ring of gold and i run down the aisle, i run down the aisle to You.\"
                                 
                 -- Derek Webb, She must and Shall Go Free
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« Reply #10 on: July 18, 2003, 03:11:18 PM »

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The key to preventing the kind of the you're talking about is to keep practice firmly rooted in scripture.  Always examine an issue against scripture, not against society.
Yeah, as long as you have something that's a constant which you can use as a reference, you're pretty well-off. People are great at finding rationalization for their personal beliefs in the Bible, though; you'd be surprised at all the 'justifications' for slavery southern plantation owners could point to in scripture. And some of them are less of a stretch than arguments used on BOTH sides of many debates, such as predestination vs. free will.

I don't know exactly what my point is here (an all-too-common occurance), but I would like say that scripture is only a reliable base when you apply both logic and the guiding of the Spirit.  
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